ABOUT
Lindi Moolman
We all get in our own way! The result of which is our full potential and reaching our goals and dreams, being just out of reach. Our fears, clouded in anger and shame, make it hard for us to see that our deepest desires are right around the next corner we DARE to turn in to. All we really need is a guide to REDIRECT us! To help us take the road we were always meant to be on.
Why do we get in our own way? Our strength, gifts and wisdom are also our heaviest burden, so much so that sometimes we think it’s our curse. In reality everything in life is light and dark held together in perfect balance. Do you have trouble seeing both sides of the coin? It’s not your fault! Environmental conditioning affects us all differently but has the same result – it motivates us to build a security system to protect ourselves – unfortunately when we live in high security our behaviour leads us of the path to our potential. Those high walls keep the light out too!
There is no growth without vulnerability – so here is my truth as an example:
My dark side is to forever feel unseen, unheard, misunderstood and mundane – My greatest desire and self-worth is therefore tied up in being seen, heard, understood and uniquely special – My superpower is to truly see people for everything that they are and can be without judgement, to listen and hear them even when they don’t really understand themselves, and to identify what is unique and special about them and show them, unselfishly with nothing but envy (my sin of comparison that leads me off my path) for how amazing they are.
I have high emotional intuition and a large capacity for depth of feelings. Which is just another way of saying that I am comfortable with deep dark emotions from a light shower to a hurricane – this has often felt like a curse and a struggle for control – but embracing this part of me, helped me see that it makes me the perfect person to sit with you in your darkness, until you are ready to let me help you shine the light and scare away the monsters.
Being a creative and innovative thinker didn’t always work out well for me, in fact it often made me feel too different and unwelcome, too much or too weird to be accepted. My greatest gift wasn’t obvious to me until I used it the way I was meant to.
You are not broken! Your perfect authentic self is just hiding under your security system also called your coping/survival strategies – you just can’t see your UNCONSCIOUS HABITUAL PATTERNS! When we understand what motivates those patterns, we can get you unstuck!
It will not be easy. It will take great courage. It will hurt sometimes and feel wonderful at other times. What matters is – IT WILL BE WORTH IT!
It would be my honour to walk beside you and have the privilege of a window seat to your growth!